It is true that some parents are overly permissive (müsamahakar) and tend to spoil their children. In my opinion,
is not a good parenting style, and it can have a range of negative long-term consequences.
If parents want to raise respectful and well-behaved children, I believe that a certain amount of discipline is necessary. Having worked with children myself, I have learnt that clear expectations and boundaries are necessary, and it is important to be able to say “no” to children.
is the only way to help young people to regulate their desires and develop self-control. In my view, parents who do not the opposite and constantly give in to (
eğmek) their children_s demands, are actually doing more harm than good. They do harm their children unconsciously.
The children of indulgent (anlayışlı) parents are likely to grow up with several negative personality traits. The
and most obvious danger is that these children will become self-centred adults who show little consideration for the feelings or needs of others. One
an attitude could be that these adults are unable to work successfully in teams with other colleagues. A
negative trait in
people could be
. A person who has never lived with any boundaries is likely to lack the patience to carefully consider options before making decisions.
, to compulsive shopping, unwise financial decisions, or even criminal activity.
In conclusion, parents should help their children to develop self-control and respect for
, and I do not believe that permissive parenting style supports
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